Two perennially basic elements of a spiritual life seem to be silence and solitude. And not just in Christianity. A lot of people have written about them over the centuries. And a lot of Christians have practiced these spiritual disciplines. Based on that alone, I think it’s worth spending some time considering them.

They are disciplines that are commonly linked with each other. They work together.

I write, I should tell you, as one who is convinced of the value of silence and solitude. And I write this on a day when we have a crew of house-painters clambering over the house as they chat and joke and whistle and shout to each other, as their boss gives directions and they respond, as their ladders clump against the house and as their footsteps thump across the porch roof so that they can paint the second story. This is also a day when a plumber is in and out of the house, working to open a clogged drain that defeated my best efforts and very minimal plumbing skills. And, finally, this is also a day I pushed a noisy, vibrating lawnmower around our property for a couple hours. My day has not been silent. I have not been hidden away from other people.

But it’s also a day that I started in silence and solitude, therefore a day in which I have renewed my side of the relationship the Lord has with me (something I need to do constantly). That means this is a day in which I carry a living awareness of my God with me. Thomas Merton spoke to the valuable and pervasive and persistent nature of these two disciplines in a small book titled “Thoughts in Solitude” (NY: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1958).

Of silence he wrote: “When I am liberated by silence, when I am no longer involved in the measurement of life, but in the living of it, I can discover a form of prayer in which there is effectively, no distraction. My whole life becomes a prayer. My whole silence is full of prayer. The world of silence in which I am immersed contributes to my prayer.” (page 91)

Of solitude: “As soon as a man is fully disposed to be alone with God, he is alone with God no matter where he may be–in the country, the monastery, the woods or the city.” (p. 96)

There is, he is saying, a gracious freedom that is rooted in these prayer disciplines, a freedom that carries over in space-time wherever and whenever a disciple goes. “My whole life becomes a prayer” (not just those minutes spent with folded hands and closed eyes). I am “with God no matter where [I] may be” (not just while in church or Bible study or other ministry activity).

If the image of the Christian life as pilgrimage works for you as it does for me, perhaps it will help to think of silence and solitude as the two sides of the path. On a hiking trail the exact edges are usually not clearly specific. The path blends out into the forest floor; the moss and fallen branches, the leaf litter and wildflowers blend back into the treadway. But the edges do define the difference between path and not-path. So, I think that guided both by solitude and by silence we can make our way along the spiritual pilgrimage of our lives. We may make our way without paying these disciplines any direct attention (as you can hike without concentrating on the edges of the trail). But I’d suggest that if we try to live without any silence and without any solitude, we will eventually find ourselves completely off the spiritual path, trying to bushwhack our way to our goal. It can be done, but it’s harder.

Keeping to the spiritual path is an intermediate goal that helps us along the way to God. Some days it’s easier than other days. Today it hasn’t been particularly easy. But, despite the disruptions of painters and plumber and push-mower, my heart rests in the peace that passes all understanding.

These disciplines are things I will be exploring in further posts. There are aspects of these simple-sounding spiritual tools that I think I can share, things that might make it easier for you to enjoy them too. Or at least, perhaps you will come to understand why some believers believe that paying attention to silence and solitude are vitally important.

7 thoughts on “Two Basics in a Spiritual Life

  1. Kurt: I really enjoyed today’s post. Have not set out to study Merton’s works, but have always found the snippets of his thoughts I’ve run across to be really important.

    On another note, we have been having some plumbing issues, too. Tony and our accross-the-street-neighbor Jacob, who father was a plumber, worked on it for about two months and it is finally working just great!

    Stay safe!
    Mary (at Mount Vernon)

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    1. I’ve read several of his books since Ash Wednesday or so, and appreciate many of his insights. In other words, you’ll probably be able to read more snippets from him right here.

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  2.  Thanks for sharing, I’ve been leaving the boys (Tusker & Jeter)out early this spring and found the sitting in the silence is comforting, although the birds are noisy it’s the comforting noise of my Lord Saying to me “ Be still and Just sit with me for a while”. Peace

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  3. I enjoyed that little book by Merton many years ago: it was my perennial before-bed-reading reading. This post was a nice reminder for me of its/his influence. Thanks for that.

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  4. Rev. Kurt, I can’t wait read all of your posts. So very glad that Ann posted this. Yours, Holly and Gary

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